Julie Simone

Objectification vs Compliments

Thu, 18 Mar 2010 22:08:21 GMT

I was in the company of a male yesterday who apologized whenever he was complimenting me because he felt that he was objectifying me. It's nice when they err on the side of being overly polite. Most women like compliments especially when they are genuine and not too over the top, not coming out of your mouth every 5 minutes. Ie, you don't need to compliment my boots/shoes/feet/whatever 10 times in an afternoon. Once or twice is enough. Any more than that screams client and it starts to feel like work because all that person is fixating on is my boots, he doesn't even hear what I'm saying at that point any more.

Some men simply don't get it. There's a big difference between telling a woman you like her body or a part of her body and making her pose for you, making that part of her body the entire experience. I've had lovers who only want to fuck me so they can see my ass. At one point I said - just look in the mirror and watch it there! I like variety, dammit! I'm not going to pose and shake my ass or indulge whatever silly male fantasy one might come up with. I get paid for that. When I'm not working I want to do normal things like throw back some drinks, watch tv and fuck like a cat in heat. If you want booty clapping or girls that dance go to a strip club or buy some porn. Seriously.

Julie Simone

people compassion space

Tue, 16 Mar 2010 13:04:55 GMT

i'm writing this blog against my better judgment... sometimes one needs to get things out...

in the last past month 2 people have flipped out on me. both were people i considered to be friends, people i thought i had been nice to, but at some point they wanted more than i had to give and became abusive. once someone crosses that line, i cut them off. i'm not going to be a victim, i'm not going to stand for abusive behaviour. i don't treat people like that and i won't treated that way...

i met this person a few years ago when i worked at the den of iniquity. we did a session. everything was fine. when i moved back to LA in August this person got in touch with me. he lived 10 mins from me and i had the impression that he was on a budget and couldn't afford sessions. he seemed lonely and like he was going through some things. he seemed angry at times and i felt as if i could help him, i used to be a really angry person myself. i tried to give him advice, loaned him books and tried to be a good friend to him. Occasionally he would make off colour remarks about us being together which i nipped in the bud.

before i went to the east coast in Feb he started to get really demanding. his birthday was coming up and he wanted me to give him a session. i was trying to arrange something for him but i was leaving for an east coast tour the next day and had too much on my plate. even though i didn't really have the time or money, i took him out to dinner for his birthday. somehow he still wasn't satisfied. no matter what i did he wasn't satisfied. he wanted me to tell him i missed him or i loved him and those are things I rarely say, especially when they are demanded of me. the day i left, he text messaged me 5 times. when i didn't write him back he asked if i was mad at him, to which i replied, "i'm shooting, i'll call you when i'm back in town". i travel a LOT. i don't really miss people. i have conditioned myself not to. it gets in the way of my work, it gets in the way of enjoying my travel time. i have to not see someone for months or even years before i miss them and still it's not an emotion i'm capable of feeling strongly. i'm extremely self-sufficient and independent. i don't really need anyone for anything. some people see it as being cold, but it's my survival instinct kicking in...

when i got back to LA i got a ride from a friend and he freaked out. he accused me of lying because i had said i would take a shuttle. i'm an adult, i have free will to do whatever i want. a lot of things happened on my trip that i needed to deal with --the death of someone i had known for 18 years, a failed attempt at submission, i attended some classes and in general had lots to think about. i also had a ton of work to catch up on. my clips stores had run out of content, i was swamped. i told this person before i came home that i would need some alone time when i got back. when i'm traveling i am in a different mode. anything that needs to be dealt with or processed gets pushed to the back of my brain until i am able to stop and think and finally deal with it. the days after getting back were supposed to be that time. instead i was inundated with invites to the movies or dinner when really all i wanted was to be alone. eventually things escalated and we got into an argument, i was very clear when i said :"you say you understand that i need some time to myself, but you're not giving it to me". he became abusive and insulting and i told him we were done and for him to never contact me again.

he started posting nasty things about me on twitter. he revealed my real name, endangering my safety. he started harassing my friends. i found out he had been by my house while i was gone and was looking for my housesitter. they have never met or exchanged emails. he wrote me hateful emails from fake email addresses from sites i advertise my Domme services on. In one of those emails he used my cat's name in the address which really freaked me out. Then he started harassing a visiting Domme that was staying with me. When he left 2 voice mail messages for her where he was screaming obscenities, i had had enough. We went to the police station and filed a police report. I spent most of today at the court house filing a restraining order.

I am still in a state of shock, i have no idea how things spun so out of control. i was nice to this person, i tried to help him and nothing i ever did was good enough for him. He always wanted more, he always found something to complain about and in the end he said so many horrible things to me, things I would never say to another human being. Part of me doesn't want to go through with the final court date, while another part of me thinks he needs to learn that he can't act his way, that he needs to learn to communicate in a more effective and positive manner.

it makes me question personal boundaries. i don't want to shut myself off to people. i like being open, it's a place i've worked very hard to get to... i don't have any answers at this point, all i know is i will definitely be more careful in the future regarding who i let into my world... things didn't have to be this way. it's unfortunate that this is how it ends...

Site Update

Fri, 12 Mar 2010 07:35:32 GMT

Just added to the members' section : a set I shot of Vasara Noxuul back in 2001 or 2002. Vasara is outside in a latex gown and forced to sweat in the afternoon sun, as chains and caution tape are added to keep her in place.

The 2nd set and the video clip are courtesy of SocietySM.com. Redhead Julie Simone, wearing only sheer full fashioned seamed stockings, is given a predicament by The Pope --pull off her own zipper or keep her legs up? She's rewarded with several forced orgasms after the zipper coming off induces a blood-curdling scream!

Site Update

Mon, 08 Mar 2010 23:01:19 GMT

this actually went live on Saturday... Sorry for the delay in putting up sample pics. I've had Bossy Delilah in town and she's been keeping me busy :)

Here's what I added : Adena, Canvassed in Rope in a medieval looking setting, includes foot bondage. busty latina beauty Zoe bound in the bathroom - breast bondage, stockinged feet, lingerie, ball gag. The video was shot by Eyerotique and has me binding Miss Vivian, torturing her natural DD breasts before leaving her alone to struggle in her bondage. Panty gag!

"Libido Land"

Thu, 04 Mar 2010 22:03:25 GMT

I saw this film at Cinekink and forgot to include it in my write up for the event, so they get their own column. I liked this film a LOT. It's about a husband and wife who are doing edgeplay. The husband is tied by his neck in the closet while his wife runs errands (at his request). At first his fantasies are scandalous, she's banging the butcher, etc. Then they get silly, girls sitting on cakes, but as he starts to get into the danger zone his visions become more and more romantic showing his love for her which was beautiful to see. It's common that people get so caught up in their fantasies that romantic love doesn't exist, there is no emotion outside of that fantasy. This film was touching and showed a side of SM play that I wish was shown more often (not the dangers of edgeplay, the emotions and love between couples who engage in play). I also liked the way the man was portrayed. He wasn't some weird creepy guy, he was adorable in his excitement for the play and his adoration for his wife.

Julie Simone

Site Update

Wed, 03 Mar 2010 02:21:27 GMT

just added to the members' section : 70 pics shot by John Donegan that have me in pigtails, doll shoes and a sheer flowing nightgown. I'm bound in a couple different ways while being menaced by a mysterious woman in leather gloves. Includes ball gag, drooling, nipple clamps, ripping of pantyhose, penetration and more!

the 2nd set is one I shot of Alsana Sin back in 2003. She's dressed in a silk nightie and stockings. Includes cleave gag and foot bondage over her stockinged feet.

The video clip is from "Vicious Vixxxens VII : Krissy the Love Sex Doll" and has Krissy Kage being anally examined and penetrated by Summer Cummings who is dressed in multiple layers of latex and a latex hood by SLYX Fashions.

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Julie Simone

Submission = Fail

Sat, 27 Feb 2010 21:13:07 GMT

I've been wanting to submit to someone for a while now, but am totally turned off by most "Master" types. I met someone in NYC that I thought I wanted to explore this side of me with but I got way more than I could handle. This is a side of me that I want to explore, not only because it will make me a better Domme, but also because it's something I really want to experience. Until yesterday the only man I've ever fully submitted to was Rick Savage in our first shoot, "The Submission of Julie Simone" (6 or 7 years ago). With Rick it felt so natural. He's an amazing Dom.

The NYC guy was a new lover, I trusted him. He tied me up which at first I wasn't thrilled about, I wasn't expecting to do a scene at that moment, but I went with it because it seemed like the right moment. Being the one who is tied for sex was really weird for me and I even commented on that. Usually I'm the one doing the tying, not the one getting tied. At one point in the scene I let him know that he should take baby steps, it had been a long time since I had submitted. Instead he mindfucked me by making me think he was going to do something that was a hard limit of mine. I tried to stop him, but he grabbed my hand and I broke down.

In our talk later he called that sub space. I told him I was disassociating. Part of me completely shut down because I couldn't handle what was going on. I wasn't there anymore and then I started crying. I've cried in 1 scene previously, the first SM video I shot. I was embarrassed then because the pain wasn't that bad, I think I was just overwhelmed with so many new sensations all at one time. In yesterday's scene I felt completely violated after allowing myself to be vulnerable. I had given someone a gift that they were irresponsible with and that gift was my fragile state of mind.

Usually when I have an emotion men run away. They don't want to deal with it. The Dom did do some aftercare, and we talked but an hour or so later I was alone at a party at an event we were attending. Hours passed and I didn't hear from him, he didn't check in with me. I finally saw him at the party and he was cold and distant and suggested I find another place to stay. The only reason I was staying there was because he asked me to. I have friends all over DC, i don't need to stay in a hotel unless i'm doing sessions. I had another break of sorts - no tears, but a sort of numbness that I haven't been able to shake fully.

It's difficult when you want something so intensely and you can't seem to make it work. I thought since this person and I had good communication that it would be different. I thought since we were lovers it would be different. While it was different than the coldness of being on a set, it still wasn't ok. I don't feel good about the experience, I don't know how long it will be before I am able to submit to someone again. It makes me wonder how other people find their perfect Dominant. I'm a pretty high profile person in the scene. If i can't, how are other people supposed to?

Cinekink

Sat, 27 Feb 2010 19:00:05 GMT

Cinekink had some amazing films in it this year. I was only able to catch a few programs but almost everything i watched was really great. The days are all a blur, but I think the first program I caught was on Thurs, a short film program. I HATED the first film, "Tied". If you're going to call your film "tied" it needs to be good bondage. In this case it should have been called "badly tied with close ups of a monster pussy". the knot was right by the model's hands, she took off her blindfold during the scene. so much about that film bugged me but i'm not going to go on and on about it. The other film by the same artist was better/refreshing in that he used an African American model who was smiling and dancing in her bondage and had an all-natural normal body which was cool to see. Still, i don't see the titillation in putting 2 clothespins on someone, but i'm pretty fucking jaded.

The 2 films in the program that really stood out for me were "Handcuffs" and "Walking the Dog", both of which ended up winning awards. I'm not into handcuffs at all, but this film was breathtaking. There was no dialogue, the shots were rich and lush and had the feel of a fashion layout come to life. It was beautiful and showed a D/S dynamic that was sensual and romantic, rather than the cheesy Master/Dungeon sterotype. Both people were elegantly dressed, the man had on leather gloves as his Dominant signifier. I wish I could make films like this. Everything about it was amazing from location to editing to music to wardrobe - literally, everything.

"Walking the Dog" was a film about a man who pressures his woman into going to a sex club then flips out when she starts to let go and enjoy herself. It was shot beautifully and the music was really great as well. I liked that it wasn't a conventional version of a sex club, it was in a parking garage. When the girl gets into another car with 2 women several men with flashlights surround the car to look in. It was a hot movie and was one i could certainly relate to given that I dated someone in the swinger scene for a while. That scenario has been played out in my life more times than I care to admit. It asks the universal question - when you get what you want will you still want it?

On Saturday I saw a documentary called "My Sexuality" that took 5 women of different ages and backgrounds and had them do various activities to build their self esteem and to become more comfortable with their bodies and sexuality. It was a great piece of work that I wish every woman could see, especially at the high school or college level. The film maker is working on one that deals with men now which is awesome. Men need to feel sexy and confident, too.

Even though I didn't get to see as many films as I would have liked, I'm glad i went to the festival. They always give me something to think about and give me inspiration.

Sat, 27 Feb 2010 18:43:44 GMT

i've barely been on the computer since i left LA. it's great that i have an iphone so i can at least check my email. i have so many experiences that i want to write about but by the time i finally am able to sit down and process, i've forgotten many of the details. it's frustrating.

more later...

the birthday

Sat, 20 Feb 2010 05:51:41 GMT

the birthday was strange but good. i slept most of the day. Klawdya brought me breakfast, flowers and candy in bed. I slept some more, then got some very unexpected birthday sex. I needed that, it had been too long. Then Bossy Delilah and a friend came over to go to Cinekink with me. Lisa Vandever, the organizer, got cupcakes for me and another film maker who had birthdays today which was sweet. I wasn't asked the questions I wanted to answer about my film. I felt a bit off in general tonight.

Delilah and I grabbed food afterwards, then went our separate ways. I walked around the city, got a glass of wine at L'Express, then walked back. During the walk I had an epiphany. My mind seems to work better in NYC than anywhere else. Maybe because it's the only city where I walk around, especially by myself. Now i'm back at Klawdya's apt sitting and debating on going to bed or watching tv. Not an exciting birthday by any means, but I'm fine with that.

Stimulate Performance - Feb 20th

Sat, 20 Feb 2010 05:30:18 GMT

After my last performance I swore i wouldn't perform again, but Xris Smack can be very persuasive :) I'll be going on around 1am and have a special birthday themed performance in mind that i'll be doing with Miss Vivian. Details below :

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What's missing is ME

Sat, 20 Feb 2010 05:05:09 GMT

Going to film festivals always has a profound affect on me. Either I come away inspired, totally self-deprecating or questioning things in some way.

What I realized tonight after the screening of my film "Service" is the major thing that's been missing from my work the past 2 years is ME. I didn't write "Service", it was a script sent to me that I put my own spin on. It was an exercise and an experiment, but it wasn't anything to which I feel connected and when I watch it, it's apparent. While I love my 2nd film in the festival, "Dolls Fit", I wrote that for Summer Cummings. It's something I relate to loosely, but my experience is different. My mother didn't make me start wearing make up at an early age because she wanted me to be perfect, she just didn't want to be seen with an ugly child. The scene was inspired by a photograph Summer took years ago that lingered in the back of my head. "Cut", a series where i slash my face, was more personal and the photos in that series are far more powerful because of it.

The films that are the most effective are the ones with real emotions. "Audition" is one of those films. The last one I made where I truly felt connected was "Slavery, A Love Story : The Beginning". I whipped myself until I had welts. My crew was cringing and kept trying to cut the action but I made them keep filming because I wanted it to be real and raw emotion. I wanted to break myself, to cut myself open and cry but I couldn't do it. My back was black and blue for 2 weeks after filming and the company I shot it for didn't say anything about the film. At one point they asked if they could re-edit something (since it was in my contract that they couldn't) that was ridiculous. Berlin opened her legs in 2 subsequent shots. I poured my heart and soul into something only to be nitpicked. They never said they liked it, they never said anything. They added it to their catalogue and were done with it. I got them a free musical score that has some of the best music Rich Brigham has written. The trombone music at the end in the whipping scene is a masterpiece. I don't even know if i'm capable of that level of emotion any more. That experience is why I won't direct for other people anymore.

Since that film I've been completely disconnected in many parts of my life. I can connect to my domination clients but that's pretty much it. I've lost interest in most sexual experiences or I lose interest mid-way through the experience except in rare occasions. The people I seem to be able to connect with the most are complete strangers or people hell bent on objectifying me and not letting me be a real person. It's ironic that as much as I want to be seen as a real person, the lover of mine who has captured my attention the longest is the one who always reduced me to a very particular fantasy he had. As long as I was fantasy girl, everything was fine. Whenever I wanted to be a real girl, he would distance himself. When it comes to my clients I get very uncomfortable when they try to make things more intimate or personal than I want them, while at the same time I have a couple clients that I wish would let go of their fantasies and do something normal with me. But, that's not the role I play in their lives. It's a fucked up world where the lines and ones identity can often be lost or blurred.

What i need to do is get back in touch with myself, to put myself back in my work. Art is not about detachment, it's about real raw emotions, it's about a level of vulnerability that I haven't allowed myself to tap into lately...

Site Update -More + Sample pics!

Thu, 18 Feb 2010 09:49:36 GMT

More content added today!

2 videos, 3 photo sets featuring Ashley Renee bound with scarves, Mina Meow topless in an ebi
tie that includes foot bondage and a bit gag, and Rubber Necro bound on a tractor while wearing
thigh hi boots, latex gloves, dress, and a hood.

Enjoy!
Julie Simone

RIP Dirk Smiler

Wed, 17 Feb 2010 12:26:06 GMT

he was a staple in the DC scene. He was a true individual, a charasmatic fellow that was not easily forgotten. I don't recall exactly when we met, it could have been as early as 1992. Dirk Smiler was named perfectly. He always had a smile on his face. He was so full of life. He could recite several pieces of literature on demand and at will. I wrote a piece for my site with his voice, his cadence in my head.

What I remember most, however, is the Masquerade Ball where I brought my boyfriend at the time, the only one I've ever brought to DC, and my movie "Ashley Renee, Latex Slave" was playing on the big screens all around the club. He said something about how amazing it was that I was a porn star and I flipped out. I told him I wasn't even naked, I was the one wearing the strap on and he called me on my bullshit because that's what friends do. He pulled me out of my denial and helped me embrace my work for what it was and to make it better. Once i finally accepted it as porn, I made better porn. I made porn I'm sure Dirk would have loved,

The story I've heard is that his girlfriend shot him. My reaction when I first heard the news was that I couldn't imagine anyone hating him that much. He was always so full of life. He should have been one of those people that died in his sleep of old age with a smile on his face, knowing he had lived a full life.

Even though we weren't close, he had an impact on my life and was a staple in the DC scene for a really long time. I can't adequately sum up the loss i feel or the sadness. All I can say is how wonderful of a person he was and how much I will miss him, how empty the DC scene will feel without him...

Julie Simone

new update

Tue, 16 Feb 2010 15:00:23 GMT

i'm headed out the door to DC, so i don't have preview pics, but i wanted to let you know a new site update has been added. i'll add more later tonight or tomorrow!

update includes Ashley Renee bound in beautiful scarves including a headscarf and Mina Meow in an ebi.

Julie Simone

updates

Thu, 11 Feb 2010 12:37:57 GMT

big update coming this weekend! i'm leaving in a few hours for a tour that includes Milwaukee, NYC, DC, and Philly. This weekend a couple of my films will be showing at Cinerotic Fest. If you're in Atlanta, please check them out!! It'll be the world premiere of a new film sure to cause a stir, "Dolls Fit", which will also be showing at Cinekink NYC the following weekend. "Cocksucker" is showing in Atlanta as well alongside another film about a blowjob, "Headshot". In that film the blowjob is shot only showing the man's face that is on the receiving end. I wish I could go to the event to see the reactions, plus "Cocksucker" usually does a good job of riling up the men in the audience :)

shooting for a Saturday update, Sunday at the latest!

-Julie Simone

sample clip

Wed, 10 Feb 2010 05:29:08 GMT

i put this on youtube and within minutes it had been pulled down and my account was removed. i officially hate youtube and whomever the little prick is who keeps getting my stuff removed. Sure, you can keep me from posting there but on my own site i can post whatever the fuck i want.

so, this is what i posted... i did it for youtube which is why there is no nudity...

The Offending Clip

Model : RubberNecro, Latex Vac Bed : SLYX Fashions, Studio: DreamLand Loft, Music: Weja

update samples

Tue, 02 Feb 2010 20:14:20 GMT

added to the members' section : from the DVD "Babes in Bondage 4". leggy brunette Smoking Mary Jane is spread eagled to my bed in lingerie, garters and stockings. Rubber restraints, bit gag. The video clip is from this scene as well.

the 2nd set is one I shot of Paige Richards after we wrapped filming on "Bettie Page, Dark Angel". Paige is allergic to cats so we found a great dive hotel room to do the shoot in. In this set she's forced to take off her stiletto heels, bound with handcuffs, ankle shackles and toe cuffs!

the update is up!

Tue, 02 Feb 2010 08:28:46 GMT

it's up and it features Smoking Mary Jane and Paige Richards.

too tired to make sample pics, i'll put them up in the morning

Julie Simone

update

Mon, 01 Feb 2010 09:36:41 GMT

the update will be up tomorrow. i had a really busy week shooting with Smoking Mary Jane Green, The Ladies of the Den of Iniquity LA, Michael the slave, and RubberNecro!

Rabbit reviews porn awards

Fri, 29 Jan 2010 05:33:51 GMT

please don't let some lame porno version of BDSM win in the Beautifully Bound and Mistress categories... (or that mega site i'm so fucking tired of hearing about)

Rabbit Reviews Porn Awards

My Birthday Party, NYC Feb 21

Wed, 27 Jan 2010 19:54:37 GMT

My actual birthday is on Feb 19th, but i'll be at Cinekink Film Festival showing work. So, my official birthday party will be at Fixe Magazine's monthly party on the 21st. I'll also be at Stimulate's event Sat night after the festival.

So, if you're in NYC come out and celebrate with me!!

final thoughts -on line dating experience

Wed, 27 Jan 2010 08:39:30 GMT

i've had more time to think about my brief on line dating experience and i've finally pin-pointed what bothered me about it. it's contriving a moment that should come naturally. people have a short exchange on line, read over each other's profiles and answers to questions and decide upon this information that you should be compatible.

while there is some usefulness to it, it makes emotions scientific. love and/or lust is not about equations and charts, it's about that instant feeling of attraction, of not being able to hear anything else around you, being completely lost in the moment. i've felt this with various people in my life when we first met. that moment is beautiful. with on line dating there is a false feeling of familiarity that removes the element that so many people are looking for.

i'd much rather meet someone at a moment when i'm least expecting it rather than seeking it out and forcing it to happen when perhaps it's completely wrong. for the time being, i'm enjoying being single. i'm productive, inspired and focused in a way i haven't been in a long time. i'm actually hoping i won't meet anyone any time soon.

Comedy PIzza and Beer!!

Tue, 26 Jan 2010 06:29:35 GMT

My dear friend Rev Mitcz is performing in my 'hood tomorrow night (Weds). Please come out and show support. He's funny, he's hot, there's pizza and beer. It's about as win-win as it gets!!

Hope to see you there!
Julie Simone

Site Update

Sat, 23 Jan 2010 06:54:22 GMT

Just added to the members' section : a set I shot and rigged with Mina Meow. Mina came with a great wardrobe including a coffee coloured pair of full fashioned seamed stockings! She showed them off as the ropes were slowly added to her petite frame.

I tied her arms in a reverse prayer position, tied one leg, then connected the other leg to her chest harness, connected the 1st leg to the 2nd leg with an ankle rope so the tie was asymmetrical and also allowed her some movement while still being completely restrained. A ball gag and hair tie completed the tie. Mina struggled beautifully as she drooled and drooled!

The video clip features Bella Vendetta as my slave who has been really good, thus gets to be tied up (on-screen) by me including foot bondage on her stockinged feet. Also includes foot worship while bound.

The 2nd set is one I shot of Samantha Grace in my house in Missouri. She's wearing vinyl, fishnets and boots. I add leather straps and a leather harness gag to complete her look!